Love and be loved back

There are codes you just don’t break. If your friend breaks up with a lover, you don’t jump in and use the opportunity regardless of who saw who first and even if there was no love in the relationship to begin with, you still don’t. I always believe that you should treat people the way you want to be treated. Because whatever you put in to the universe, comes back to you in direct proportion and this I am a testimony to and believe with all my heart. I have done some terrible things and the moment the thought of doing that thing comes into my mind, I hear it clearly that there are going to be consequences. And if i eventually do that deed, it comes back to me in direct proportion. So if you decide to steal, known that something is going to be stolen from you, if you decide to snatch, something is going to be snatched from you. Always try to listen to that little tiny voice that checks your moral intent. Give out love and it will come back to you in measures.

Love and be loved back in return, because it is such a beautiful feeling.

I don talk am now……………..

11-10-11

Image

Image is everything but image is everything. I say this because some people consider me to be vain and I’m not, well just a little. The way you appear is extremely important and I’ll tell you why I say so, on a Saturday I had just finished having a conservation with my cousin, and he was telling me how someone I didn’t know had described me as “flaming”, and I found that to be ridiculous ‘to an extent’, because i don’t consider myself to be, (well again just a little). The truth is that some of the stuff I wear are normal where I come from, my shirts would be perfectly normal if I wore them at home only thing is that someone would ask were the wrapper is (not an excuse for looking scruffy though).After the conversation I went out with a friend and we went to see the work of his friend (a wedding planner), we didn’t plan on staying but ended up sitting down for the wedding(fab wedding by the way  No.2 on the list). I then saw a fab magazine editor with whom I had stayed with  while still an admission seeker and bottom line is that I was ashamed to go meet her because I wasn’t dress right, (dayum! I looked like one of the helps) but in the end I had to because she had been extremely nice when I stayed with her. So you can imagine that the day I decided to look like “the help” was the day I saw her after a long time. So I’ve decided to work harder at my life and dress well school or no school, i never want to be put in that situation again, talk or no talk because when you dress well to suit your inner being  you feel good with yourself. So I’m gonna do me the way I know how to do me and us all hypocritical bitches can keep on talking and let he who is without sin is the first to cast a stone.

I don talk am now……………..

Thursday, 15 September 2011

My first post yeahhhhhhhhh, even though im in sch and my life is being stressed